Just the other day my boyfriend was playing with my toes making jokes saying:
for the momma toe- she’s a little older for me
the index toe- she’s just way to tall for me
the middle toe- still not my type
the ring toe- he say, “oh yeah she’s just my type 5’4 very slender with long hair”
and for
the pinkie toe- he said i wouldn’t Talk to her either.
OK now it may not seem like a big deal but I’m 5’10 i weight 148 very athletic and look damn good with shoulder length hair. See i took that very offensive because i had made a remark in return saying well **** I’m tall so what was that all about. he said well i love you regardless but i would just prefer you to be 2-3 inches shorter. He’s my height as well 5’10. should i take this offensive or just leave it alone? honest opinion please







Sounds like he’s kidding you.
he is a guy he probably didnt even realize that this upset you. i say let it go.
That doesn’t mean anything.
I’m sure that there are things you would prefer he have that he doesn’t right now…ie. a high paying job, great looks, fit body, etc… that doesn’t mean you think less of him. It’s just a preference. No one’s ever going to get it all.
5-10” is tall for a girl to be honest. but there are plenty of 6 foot guys that would like that. my girl is 5-9” and she is taller than a bunch of my guy friends haha but im 6-1” so i love it. find a taller guy not a midget
just leav alone. if he really meant to be mean he would have been like so maybe i should break up with you. see maybe he does love you but keep a eye on him just in case
just tell him “take it or leave it.”
well if ur very sensitive ull be on it for a while best thing is to get over it he was just playn n he loves u
i would be offended just like you but you have to realize that he does love you for who you are. i’m sure there is something about him that you would rather be different but you still love him anyway.
and boys don’t really think about what they say. they don’t realize that they said something bad until after they said it. and girls think about things too much. everything goes both ways
i dont think he meant anything
to be honest i think its kind of offensive be who you are not what others want you to be if god wanted you to be the way your boy friend wants you to be he would have made you that way.
leave it alone, he probably didn’t mean to offend you and well, my boyfriend is nowhere near what i thought my type was, but i love him and would never even think of making him change or anything…. so yo umay not be the hight he wants you to be but he may love you just the same.
i would just leave it alone.. he’s just messin around with you
i’m sure he’s just kidding. he was probably just trying to be funny/cute
Just leave it alone. He probably didn’t even know that if offended you. Good luck hun!
maybe he didn’t mean it like that, but i understand how you would take offense to that =P But he says he loves you regardless.
Just leave it alone, I’m pretty sure he wasn’t trying to be offensive to you. Sometimes, we guys have to express something and don’t know how to do it, so go easy on him. If hes with you, then you’re the type he likes.
Nahhh; most guys like girls a little shorter than they are. Makes them feel more masculine. Fools, ikr? but yeh i wouldnt take it offensive
Frankly he’s rude and mean. Be offended
He said the index toe was too tall for him
He said he wishes you were shorter
He said 5’4 is his type
I don’t know what he meant but something doesn’t sound right
tell him it made you nervous, we are being open and truthful with you like you should be with him. It doesn’t sound offending, like he’s trtying to upset you. He’s a guy, guys play around alot. If you do talk to him (which I think you should), be calm don’t get all mad and demand an answer, like alot of girls do.
im the same way. very over sensitive. i would be pissed, because he didn’t say anything about you or what you looked like in his little story… but just like everyone who already answered this. hes just kidding.. i started telling my man when he says stuff like that, that it bothers me and that he needs to make sure that he is making me feel like im wanted also!
I would let it go. There are bigger things you could fight about. And I’m sure there’s atleast one thing you would change about him. Physical or personality wise. even if it’s something really small. I’m 5’10″ too so i totally know what you mean about it though. i’m lucky to find a guy who’s even my height much less taller than me. but it could be worse (you could be fat). just remember that lol