sgt_casey asked:
I am 37 yrs old, but look like I’m in my late 20s early 30s. I’m quite good looking in in all-American, wholesome way, fun, tall, well-built, and well-hung. I am always very attracted to younger women (18-25 year-olds), but find it hard to attract younger women. Why? Don’t younger ***** like older men anymore? What do I do?
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And why not go with women your own age?
I’m guessing it is because you think you can do better, and it’s that arrogance that is why you can’t get a woman.
I myself find older men much more appealing. They are more mature and know what a woman needs, unlike younger men who are after only one thing.
well its kinda nasty when the guy is as old or old enough to be their father…i think you need to find a nice girl around 30 35 no matter your looks your still 37…i think your trying to be younger and not looking at yourself as what you really are and who you really are
i like older guys but wouldn’t go more then 3 years older right now because we are just in different times in our lives
Well, im not sure if thats true about younger girls not liking older men1 My husbands an older guy and alot of my friend and community like older guys! Its usually that they are married, in relationship and cant commit to that girl! We like commitment us younger girls! lol
Have you ever thought that maybe younger women just aren’t attracted to you?
That’s quite an age gap. Because of this age gap, younger girls usually do not want an older guy because they aren’t into the same things and aren’t physically at the same level. Not always, but sometimes. Why don’t you want a woman closer to your own age that has things figured out? Are you after the looks? the body of a younger girl? the free spirit? Find out your motivation first. I don’t know many girls that age that are interested in a 37 year old because there just isn’t that much in common. The ones that usually are interested in that big of an age gap are the ones after money/power.
Try a dating service if you truly want a younger girl. They can match you with girls that want older gentleman. Good luck to you!
I think you like dating younger women because it makes you feel young too, right? I’m not sayn your old or nothing but to a 18- 25 yr old girl, your considered old. It’s ok if that’s what you like, just make sure your dating for all the right reasons and not for your benefit. (of feeling young) Are you in denial of your age, or are you advertising?
I am 24 and I have always been attracted to older guys.
I have always been mature for my age and guys my age and younger are so immature. I like an older guy that knows what he wants.
It’s a matter of relativity. My Mom passed away over 20 years ago & my 90 year old Dad & his Viagra date mostly younger women including a 40 year old & a 54 year old…..however my Dad looks 18 + years younger than he is & is a very charming. talented Ballroom Dancer. Although there is a big age difference between his dates & him; I think he still has more in common with them than you would with an 18-19 year old girl who probably thinks that 50 Cent was the best recording artist of last year ?? —-I think that as you approach 40 you will find that a 29-30 year old woman will have more in common with you and, as such, will be more receptive to you….I think that once many women reach 30 they find that they are often attracted to & have even more similar likes + dislikes as older men do….
Yes, there are A LOT of younger women who are into older men. But I have no way of informing you as to why you’re having a difficult time “landing” younger women, because I don’t have enough information in order to form an opinion on the matter.
I’ll just take a guess-
Many younger women are attracted to older men due to the idea or fantasy of being with someone much more mature than the men of their age group. Are you, according to society, immature for your age? If so then maybe this is your problem (or at least one of them).
Not making any accusations. Like I said, it was just a guess.
Well, I’m with you… I don’t understand the responses that just say, “just find someone your own age”. There’s lots of age mixes that work in relationships. First problem, and this may seem obvious, the bigger the age difference, the fewer women you’ll find who would even consider a relationship with someone your age. Assume then you find someone who you are attracted to and who would consider such a relationship with you (you may not know this for sure until after some time getting to know them). You may already know this person, and don’t realize it, or perhaps you’ve already made some “fatal mistake” in their eyes and you don’t realize that’s why you are out of contention.
Then, you have to consider what the woman is after, and also, what you’re after – is it un-committed fun, or an LTR? If both you and the woman are up for either one, that increases your chances. If either of you only want one or the other, that limits the possibilities. Also, these factors may determine where and how you look to meet women. I’m in my 40s but look like upper 30s, and have been keeping in contact with a fabulous 25 year old. She hasn’t come around yet, but I’m still working on it – part of it I think is I need to get in better physical shape, on which I am making progress. My strategy is to keep a friendship going and build some trust. I also try to be available as a mentor to provide some sage advice — I sometimes can’t believe some of the boneheaded things and gaffs she has told me some of her same-aged ex-boyfriends have done and said. When I hear that, I think, “there should be no contest here!”. But in these matters, people don’t make the most rational choices, either.
Wow Srg. Casey haven’t seen you around in a looong time.
But anywho am sure there are plenty of youngies out there that want a mature man…I dunno your situation maybe you have children and they are not ready for that.
Or you need to go to happy hour in your inform…that always attracts a young women .