MFL asked:
I just feel so awkward all the time , people always stare it makes me so self-conscious. I mean people always say im pretty and stuff .. i get asked for modeling but then they say im too tall… Do tall guys prefer the really short girls or the ones more their height? any pills to stop growing? i dont know if im finished but i really dont wanna grow any more. yeah its really depressing







Only if they’re Tom Cruise or tall themselves.
It shouldn’t matter about the height. I personally do, but that’s just me, everyone has their own opinion.
Long legs = ****. Be proud of your height. I wish there were tall girls around here (because I am really tall) but they seem to be all short.
6′0 at seventeen isn’t that tall. I’m nearly six feet and I’m thirteen. (i’m a guy, but I don’t think that makes much of a difference) don’t worry about it!
dont feel uncomfortable..
thats a models height!!
and there are lots of guys who are attracted to tall girls!!
some of the most famous models and successful ones ar even taller than you. carry yourself with confidence. hey, my sister-in-law is 6′1″, and, well, lets just say my older brother didnt have a hard time getting girls…….
and he chose her…there is nothing wrong with being tall.
it get better when you are alittle older. i like tall women btw. but i usally date women around my height just so the woman doesnt feel so uncomfortable.
You shouldn’t feel so bad about yourself. Being tall is nothing bad. Guys just feel intimidated. I had a friend who was super duper short go out with another friend who was super duper tall and they were perfectly happy. Height doesn’t determine the character of a person. Ya’ know?
But your shoulders back and walk through life with grace and dignity.
A friend of mine has a daughter who is 6′5″. And you think it’s bad for you! No, Hon, you should be finished growing now. If you can be patient, someone out there is going to see you, learn about you and love you. It doesn’t matter how tall you are. You will just have to wait till he arrives. And the younger guys are more interested in a girl’s looks but when they older, they tend to straighten up their act and get more mature in their choices.
If you are really still growing, maybe you should see a physician. Good luck Honey.
Tall is beautiful. Embrace yourself. Things could be much, much worse.
Pills are not the answer but self confidence is. Find things that your height is great for. If your active climbing and basketball are great. I can tell you that there are guy’s out there that love tall girls. Some even prefer them taller! But the biggest thing for you is to find things that you like no matter what.
I feel your pain, I’m 5′8 at 13 so yeah. all i can say is when you have your eye on a guy ask him what he thinks when and if its a comfortablee subject and you are friends. and on the ppl staring again all i can say is don’t let it get to you and be your self. Like me i have ppl stare but i go on and be the clumsy goof that i am. If this doesn’t help im sorry if it does then im glad to be of service!
Please don’t live you life worrying about what other people want you to be. Stand tall and be proud. It’s personality that counts not looks.
Personality overcomes all. When people criticise you it’s a sign that they are jealous of you.
I am 15 and I am 6′1 1/2, I will be 6′4 to 6′5 I would love to have a tall woman around. This whole world is becoming small. Don’t worry. You will find a tall guy for you. There is always a someone out there for you
Look at Julia Roberts Bio.
She’s taller than most men she’s in movies with. she’s 5′9″ tall.
You have her by an inch. Big deal.
Its not what equipment you where given to work with, its what you do with it.
“I’m too tall to be a girl, I never had enough dresses to be a lady, I wouldn’t call myself a woman. I’d say I’m somewhere between a ***** and a broad.” – Julia Roberts
I am sorry to say that usually men want a girl who is shorter than them. This is due to 2 factors. 1. is the men like to feel superior to women and height in one of those subconscious things that show superiority. e.g. A man who taller than another man feel stronger and better than them. Although this is not always certain but is a common psycological trait. 2. This follows a little bit of the first principle in that men and women seek out partners that are genetically and mentally similiar. A 5′5″ man will look for a women who would be like 5′2″, given that men tend to be naturally taller.
However, this doesn’t mean you should feel awkward. It means that you are going to want find a guy who is naturally tall like you. Usually men like these (basketball players if you will) will be more naturally atracted to you.
Above all else; however, a guy will usually not care if your tall so lonfg as you don’t care that he is short.If he is shorter than you, make all effort not to mention your taller than him as this could rub him the wrong way and cause you two to become distant. Any relationship you have with another person must have you two able to embrace each other’s bodies and minds and not be critical to small things such as height.
For your particular situation, You are most likely done growing and will not be able to shrink. (at least not until you become very old). Also high school kids can be very sinister and shallow so you may have a hard time dating. Luckily when you reach college, men and women mature decently enough that small things like that don’t matter much and even if they are uncomfortable with it they will embrace it because they love you and not just your body.
guys like tall girls who aren’t ashamed of being tall.
I was self-conscious when I was younger too..but then I realized that I don’t know any man who HATES long legs lol.
Get yourself some pride, some heels, and work it! If they stare, wink back and let them know you know you are the ****.
Yes, boys do like tall girls, but most guys like it when the girl is still a little bit smaller. Personally, I don’t care when a girl is a little bit taller then myself (then I have more too love, haha)
Don’t worry about it and be proud of being a tall girl!