My husband is a truck driver, with a dedicated run everyday,”never off the beaten path” he is gone 5 days a week, I do go with him 1 day a week. I do not work, I have always stayed home not always by my choice, but thats another topic, I do take care of everything from kids, house lawn shopping, everything is done when he returns home! The truck he drives is our own & there is a great deal of paper work to do at times, but I handle that as well. He does do a fine job with supporting us, & he is a hard worker, & I could never take that away from him.
He has been on this same run for a few years now, He started running with this woman, at first I thought nothing of it, I am no queen, and I know that looks are not everything by no means, but I have to say up until a year ago, you really wouldnt know if she was a he or a she other than she has a DD breast, she was heavy she is very tall, and had more hair on her body than I do on my head! I have to say she seemed like a very kind person, out to help anybody. Well Over the past year, other drivers are even noticing the change!! She has lost about all of her weight, had over 5 grand done on her teeth, wears make up. waxes all of her side burns that she has & other hair! styles & dyes her hair, and wears girl clothes. Now she still is not attractive by no means. I have been dealing with her running the road with my husband for a few years now, but over the past year its worst, it just does not seem right! They are together day & night, all week, when I go with him, she does not run with us on the road, but they do everything together, stop to shower at the same time, eat, sleep, they are never apart! he helps her unload her truck, he even brings her home with him to work on her truck in our garage! She even has gotten involed in some of our arguments, and she has tried to tell me what upsets him! For instance, he wanted a laptop for his truck, I still do not know why, he has never been one to use even ours here at home, so he carried on with me about this, I finally said, ok **** if thats what you want lets get on for you, well I found one for him, and went to order it, and then he had to tell me the truth, he had her order one for him with our debt card & shipped to her house!!! We have had problems in our merriage just like any other normal couple, maybe worst at times, he has been unfaithful to me well more than once in our 17 years together, and a few years ago he almost lost me because of it! Durring any of our arguments or what ever, she latley has her own opinion,,,she more less feeds his madness!!! I really could tell you all some stories on how he really can be and you would all think that I am nuts!! It has not been an easy 17 years.
He tells me he loves me & never wants to loose me, he tells me I have nothing to worry about, but in the same sentances he will hear nothing that I have to say to how I feel about anything with her, I try telling him to me it does not look right, his comment is he does not care what others think! This past weekend he told me he wants to hear none of our other friends say one more bad thing about her, he said that, that went for me as well, she is his friend and thats that! Then he proceeded to tell me that they picked up a cheap car, together so that when they are at there delivery place at night that they no longer have to bobtail to the truck stop to eat & shower, they can just jump in the car & go!!!!
Now am I crazy?