Okay Im 5’3 and my husband is about 5’7 and we have 2 beautiful ***** together. But lately my mind has been trickling on his height. Before marrying him I was never interested in shorter men, I always like taller men and now its like problem is biting me in the ****. I feel uncomfortable and when I look at him I see him as a kid (he’s 23). I know height sont make you less of a man but how can I rid myself of these thoughts. I do good sometimes and than other times they find their way back in my thoughts. I want to be happy and this is really disturbing me. Plus also the problem of my son being a shortie when he gets older.. Ughh… I just dont want my son to be ridiculed!!! I know I shouldnt worry about the unknow or things that I cant change but how do I make it stop and realize it doesnt matter, although I hope my son gets his height from my dad. I sound so evil and is disgusted. Please any advice???????????

I just got an email from a user who blocked me before I could respond. I answered one of his many questions about fat people and apparently offended him. Here’s his message: “I bet you eat men for breakfast….Still Obama won ****….:)))))))) enjoy your icecream”

I get the ice cream (2 words) remark, but what’s Obama have to do with anything? Here’s my response: “I have no idea what you’re talking about. What does Obama have to do with the simple fact that you are a shallow man and have no respect for women in general? You’re one of those men that only their mother could love. BTW, I am 5’8” tall and weigh 130 lbs. I’m in good shape and have no problem getting men despite the fact that I have an opinion and don’t have to rely on my husband to give me one. Men like you make me sick. Overweight ppl have feelings too! Learn to spell!”

His user name is Alex V. Look up some of his answers/questions and tell me what you think about his message and my response.
I know that this is the marriage section, but that is where I answered his question so I thought that it would be appropriate.
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Your guess is as good as mine.

My husband is a truck driver, with a dedicated run everyday,”never off the beaten path” he is gone 5 days a week, I do go with him 1 day a week. I do not work, I have always stayed home not always by my choice, but thats another topic, I do take care of everything from kids, house lawn shopping, everything is done when he returns home! The truck he drives is our own & there is a great deal of paper work to do at times, but I handle that as well. He does do a fine job with supporting us, & he is a hard worker, & I could never take that away from him.
He has been on this same run for a few years now, He started running with this woman, at first I thought nothing of it, I am no queen, and I know that looks are not everything by no means, but I have to say up until a year ago, you really wouldnt know if she was a he or a she other than she has a DD breast, she was heavy she is very tall, and had more hair on her body than I do on my head! I have to say she seemed like a very kind person, out to help anybody. Well Over the past year, other drivers are even noticing the change!! She has lost about all of her weight, had over 5 grand done on her teeth, wears make up. waxes all of her side burns that she has & other hair! styles & dyes her hair, and wears girl clothes. Now she still is not attractive by no means. I have been dealing with her running the road with my husband for a few years now, but over the past year its worst, it just does not seem right! They are together day & night, all week, when I go with him, she does not run with us on the road, but they do everything together, stop to shower at the same time, eat, sleep, they are never apart! he helps her unload her truck, he even brings her home with him to work on her truck in our garage! She even has gotten involed in some of our arguments, and she has tried to tell me what upsets him! For instance, he wanted a laptop for his truck, I still do not know why, he has never been one to use even ours here at home, so he carried on with me about this, I finally said, ok **** if thats what you want lets get on for you, well I found one for him, and went to order it, and then he had to tell me the truth, he had her order one for him with our debt card & shipped to her house!!! We have had problems in our merriage just like any other normal couple, maybe worst at times, he has been unfaithful to me well more than once in our 17 years together, and a few years ago he almost lost me because of it! Durring any of our arguments or what ever, she latley has her own opinion,,,she more less feeds his madness!!! I really could tell you all some stories on how he really can be and you would all think that I am nuts!! It has not been an easy 17 years.
He tells me he loves me & never wants to loose me, he tells me I have nothing to worry about, but in the same sentances he will hear nothing that I have to say to how I feel about anything with her, I try telling him to me it does not look right, his comment is he does not care what others think! This past weekend he told me he wants to hear none of our other friends say one more bad thing about her, he said that, that went for me as well, she is his friend and thats that! Then he proceeded to tell me that they picked up a cheap car, together so that when they are at there delivery place at night that they no longer have to bobtail to the truck stop to eat & shower, they can just jump in the car & go!!!!
Now am I crazy?

my fiance and i have been together for quite some time. we were together a year and a half before we got engaged six months ago. we live with my mom for the time being. due to the fact that neither of us are working..my fiance got laid off from his job (damn economy!) and i haven’t worked since i had my daughter because i wanted to finish high school and at the time i couldn’t afford day care and because i live with my mom the household income was to much to get help with daycare. since i finished high school my mom has really wanted me to get a job (as have i) but right now nobody’s hiring. she knows it so she doesn’t give me to much grief. but my fiance on the other hand..is having just as much of a hard time finding a job..but still whines about how i haven’t found one! on top of that i’ve been sick the past couple of days and i’ve been sleeping a lot. he knows that i feel like crap but still gets mad because he has to take care of my daughter (from a previous relationship). i can understand that he’s angry because he gets little to no sleep with me being up and down all night coughing and what not..but i would honestly rather him be a little tired than for me to be breathing in my daughter’s face all day because he just wants to sleep. he loves my daughter..i know he does. just like i know she loves him. i take care of him when he’s sick..but he refuses to do the same for me.

i accepted the fact that he didn’t like my friends. they really were bad influences and they really were just using me for whatever i had. so i no longer speak to most of them. i pretty much have no social life because he doesn’t like the people i’m friends with. but it’s ok for him to talk to his ex. through myspace and all of her pictures are of her HALF *****! and he doesn’t understand why that upsets me. she calls him hun or **** and tells him to look at her pics and comment them and all this stuff and he actually DOES IT! but if some guy said that to me we’d fight about it for a week!

just like tonight..he said told me that i was being a bit** (over not saving food for him to eat) and i told him that if he would stop being an @$$hole over nothing that i would make him something to eat. and he says “oh well don’t you have balls now that your mom’s home..lets see how you act tomorrow when nobody’s here” i told him that if he didn’t like what i did or said that he could leave because i’m tired of him acting like everything i do makes him miserable.

in the six months we’ve been together he’s told me he was going to leave numerous times. and he blames EVERYTHING on me. i’m always being a bit**..so it’s always my fault that we fight. when he calls me a wh0re for having a kid when i was 14 and when he tells me i’m worthless..that’s my fault to because i MAKE him act that way. when we fight..we do battle. i’ve had multiple bruises. he throws things at me. he’s ripped my engagement ring off my finger more than once. he makes me feel like i’m an inch tall. but he says he’s NEVER been like that with anyone else..so it’s my fault he’s like that i bring that out in him.

he tells me he loves me after he’s done being an @$$hole..and i always tell him that i doubt it. because i do. i know that at some point he loved me..but i don’t think he does anymore. i think more or less he’s just here because he doesn’t really have anywhere else to go. and the one time i did try to kick him out he told me to try it and see what happened.

i mean i’ve tried to get him to talk to me after we fight and he always tells me there’s nothing to talk about. he refuses counseling. he was actually nicer when he was drinking and it’s gotten to the point where i throw money at him and tell him to go to the bar because i’d rather see him drunk than to have one more fight with him.

i’m really at the end of my wits. we love eachother but i just can’t be super nice 24*7 just to make him happy. when i’m nice..we don’t fight but the minute i’m not..he becomes this person that i ****. and i’ve never hated ANYONE! does anyone have any advice?

*sorry this was long but i just don’t know what else to do anymore!

I recently got married to my high school boyfriend (known each other 12 years) and I can’t think of a good pet name for him. I don’t want to call him hubby, sweety, hon, ****…the usual. Any ideas? Points to work with…tall, black sheep of his family, paramedic/firefighter, into extreme sports, survivalist nut..I can’t come up with a good one that will stick!

Seriously this guy gets girls like its nothing but i struggle to even start a conversation with them.. He isn’t even good looking but for some odd reason girls still like him.. What can i do to show this nerd that or how can i get good looking ***** also? Doesn’t matter if its at school, the mall, we have neutral friends and we all hang out at clubs, bars etc and girls just seem to like this *******? He would just walk over to a group of girls (6 sitting at at table) and just start talking to them and making them all laugh and sit with them for like 30 minutes and stuff its pissing me off!!!!!! And the girls in the picture ASKED HIM TO THE PARTY AS YOU SEE! Before they met a group of us at a Bar the tall one in the picture said quote (OMG he is soo sexxxxy like that) Give me a break!!! =/

Him.. Booooooo LMAO!!!

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MEEEEE!!!

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