Alright, i will be 20 soon, am size petite and i am 1m 56 tall. I tired of ppl calling me baby or saying tht am a ***********. I am at the university for my 1st year. Many times when i meet new people they call say they treat me like someone who is little or like a baby. I mean i do not wish to be treated like a **** or whatever but still am a young women, then WHY for heaven sake they treat me like this. I get red of anger when some of my relatives call me petite, cmon am not that small. Recently a guysaid that am like a baby…i wonder if that was a joke or somwhere he really means it. I am to be blamed if am only 1,56cm. Its sooo heart breaking when i get such comments, i do feel complex about it because my other friends who are much taller do get attention much more. I am not jealous but its as if am the rejected one. Please can someone advise me what to do or even tell me why is it like that…







You’re acting like a baby right now.
Yea, you seem a lil immature.
Being petite or short does not make anyone childish. It is someones actions that make them childish. A lot of men LOVE a small woman.
You are the way God made you so rejoice in that and don’t let others rob you of happiness.
I get the same thing. I’m little and i look heaps young for my age. I’m 26, a married woman, been around the block a few times. And i get mistaken for a 16 or 18 yo by strangers based on how i look.
And they say “oooh, it’s your cheek bones, your skin”.
They patronise you now, but when you’re 40 you will look 25 and will have young guys running after you, and they will be old and having people patronising them.
Stop whining. I’m sorry to say this because I want to get best answer but you seem a little childish for asking this. There are people out there that like small people but you just haven’t met them yet. Seriously grow up and go on some adventure to the great unknown. That’ll make you more mature.
Well im 19 and short and nobody has ever treated me like a baby! It all comes down to how one carries themself. If you act like a baby you would be treated like a baby.
People think i’m younger than I actually am, but that due to my appearence. But when the time comes I can act and dress according to my age and no one would dare call me a baby!
I think maybe the way you reaction to situations (or handle situations like now) is what makes people question your age.
Just be happy with what God dealt you, I mean, when were like in are 30s we would look like early 20s.
they should not care about your height just how u act with them u seem like a good person!
itcan also be a very affectionate way of treating you you are a little childlish thought or adleast over sentimental about it ! Im 21 years old but I look like 16 years old I try to use that sometimes ! People often treat me like an 16 years old and whenever i tell them my true age they go “OH MY GOD” or “You don’t look like it” just don’t worry about it its not important what other people say anyway ! You are who you are and thats all you’re not a child and if they can’t see it its their problem !